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Top 10 Signs You’ll Get Lucky
One of the most complicated things in the dating game is knowing whether or not a woman is interested — especially since it’s easy to misinterpret a mere act of kindness as sexual interest. Deciphering whether or not she is interested in getting to know you or if you’re close to “getting lucky” that evening can be equally as confusing.
How do you know when an intimate conversation with someone you just met at a nightclub can potentially become a one-night stand? Truthfully, there are no surefire signs you’ll get lucky at the end of a date, but there are a few behavioral clues to look out for. Knowing how to recognize some signs you’ll get lucky — verbal and non-verbal ones — so that you can proceed to the next level will eliminate a significant amount of apprehension on your part to go for it.
It’s no secret that the woman ultimately controls the sexual climate of any situation or encounter. So, to help you read her better, here are the top 10 signs you’ll get lucky.
10
She buys you a drink
If she offers to buy you a drink, it is a clear indication that she is confident and goes after what she wants. It is also an invitation to join her, and potentially keep her company for the remainder of the evening.
9
She touches you
Body language is the key to knowing whether or not a woman is into you. If she touches you affectionately on the arm or leg in the midst of conversation, chances are that she’d like to take that touching to a more intimate place later on.
8
She compliments you
Women aren’t the only ones who enjoy compliments; men like their egos fed too — a trick most women know. So, if she’s going on a complimenting rampage about your physical appearance or the smell of your cologne, you can take that as a sign that you’ll probably get some kind of action by closing time.
7
She’s making eye contact
Maintaining prolonged eye contact (i.e., longer than five seconds) with you during your conversation shows that she likes what she sees and isn’t afraid to explore it further.
6
She lets you touch her
If she’s touching you, take that as an invite to return the favor. By allowing you to touch her affectionately or not shying away from any accidental touches to her hand or leg, she’s showing you that she’s comfortable with you and attracted to you. These are two probable signs you’ll get lucky by the end of the night.
5
She leans in
When talking to someone they’re not interested in, both men and women ensure to maintain their personal space so the other person doesn’t get the wrong idea. So, if your woman of interest leans in while talking to you, you can interpret it as a clear sign that she is comfortable sharing her personal space with you, and probably wouldn’t mind sharing her private space with you too.
4
She shares private details
A woman won’t open up to just anyone; she needs to feel comfortable and safe with the person she pulges personal information to. So, if you find yourself engaging in a conversation in which she’s sharing personal or emotional information, read it as an act of being open to receiving physical consolation from you.
3
She starts talking dirty
No sign you’ll get lucky can be more clear than this one. If she starts engaging in a sexual conversation with you — she tells you what she likes, she asks you what you like, she tells you about past experiences, etc. — you can be sure that she’s flirting with you in the hopes of taking your relationship to the next level.
2
She shows you her tattoo
Some things are only meant for certain eyes to see, especially when it comes to private features on intimate body parts, like a tattoo on her lower back or a birthmark on her breast. If she raises her shirt to show you anything of the sort, she’s giving you a glimpse of what you could have later on if you make a move.
1
She splits a cab with you
If, by the end of the night, you still haven’t worked up the courage to ask her to your place, she may leave at the same time as you or even go so far as to offer to split a cab ride with you. Consider this your last chance to get lucky for the night.
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There is no scientific formula to help predict how your evening will end. But if you take the time to be aware of these small signs, you can be sure that your success rate for “scoring” with women will increase significantly.
理解十种暗示,成功把到马子。
理解十种暗示,成功把到马子。
马修.林奇
在约会这项桃花盛开的活动中,最令人头痛的一个环节就是,搞清楚这个妞儿是不是对你有兴趣----尤其是,大家心知肚明的『那个』兴趣啦,弄清楚她是否已经对你芳心暗许,搞明白你今晚离她的绣榻还有多远,都不是件简单事。
如何判断,你和刚在酒吧认识的某个MM的一番私密谈话,究竟有多大的潜力可以成为一夜情的前奏?老实说,没有哪种暗示铁定表明约会之后她一定会准你一亲芳泽,共赴巫山,但的确还是有迹可循的。懂得如何辨识她的暗示—一句话或者一个媚眼—然后判断是否可以做出下一步的行动,可以大大的缓解你的约会焦虑症。
毫无疑问,在任何时候,对于『能不能搞一搞』这个问题,主动权都在女方手上,她才是最后的话事人。所以,让我来帮你读懂她,下面是离温柔之乡最近的十种暗示,Come on ,幸福在自己手中。
10.她给你买酒精性饮料
如果她给你买酒,这是在明确不过的暗示啦,这表明她对手中的猎物--你---有十足的把握对她想要的东西信心满满,这也是一种共度良宵的邀约,这种暗示表明她愿留你过夜,接下来的时间里,你可以对她做任何你想做的事情。
9.她摸你
身体语言是判断她是否属意于你的一把金钥匙,如果在交谈之间,她有意无意的拍拍你胳膊,碰碰你大腿,这多半表示,一会儿她想深入你更隐秘的部位哦。
8.她夸你
女人,并不是地球上唯一的喜欢甜言蜜语的物种,男人更喜欢得到女人的赞美---这在女人圈儿里是个人人皆知的窍门儿。所以,当她十分夸张毫无底线的称赞你健壮的体格,或者对你身上散发的古龙水味道大加褒扬,这多半表示在约会结束之前你可以有进一步的行动啦。
7.她电你
你们谈话时,她长久的深情凝视你的双眼(比如,超过5秒钟)表明她好钟意眼前所见的帅GG,不介意进行进一步的探索研究。
6.她准你摸
如果她摸你,你要当作一种暗示,并且勇敢的回摸她,如果她也准你温柔的摸她或者对于你假装意外的碰碰她玉臂和美腿毫无羞怯之感,那多半表明她和你相处愉快而且一颗芳心已经被你俘获,这是双份儿的暗示:今晚,你会走狗屎运。(令我想起《大话西游》:我不顾一切的摸你,你也不顾一切的摸我)
5.她向你靠拢
同一个不感兴趣的对象交谈,不管是男人还是女人都会刻意的保持安全的身体距离,以免对方产生误解,所以,如果你的妞儿跟你聊天时身体前倾,有靠近你的趋势,你可以理解为:她和你席间相谈甚欢,不介意一会儿和你床上共欢。
4.她和你分享隐私。
女人不是对谁都敞开心扉的,她只把秘密说给令她有舒适感安全感的人(怎么那么像护舒宝啊)所以,当你发现你们交谈时,她跟你讲了很多个人问题,而且讲的很动情,兄弟,勇敢的上吧,那表明,她希望从你那里得到肉体上的安慰哦。
3.她开始和你聊『那回事儿』
我靠,天哪,没有比这更明确的暗示了,要是她开始和你谈起自己的风流艳史,比如,告诉你她喜欢什么姿势,问你喜欢什么姿势,兴致勃勃的和你谈起过去的经验。。。。几乎可以确定,她在挑逗你,希望你们的关系能够更上一层楼。
2.她给你看纹身
有些东西不是谁都可以看的,尤其是一些在私密处的个人小特征,比如,小蛮腰上的纹身或者酥胸附近的一粒朱砂痣,如果她肯掀起T恤,不惜春光乍泄给你匆匆一瞥那枚臀部以上腰部以下的纹身或者是胸部附近的那颗美人痣,那多半表明,现在先让你浏览一下,如果你愿意,过一会儿你可以看个仔细,慢慢研究。
1.她和你分享座位
天人交战了一个晚上,约会就要结束,你始终不够胆邀请她到你的狗窝一叙,而她就要起身离去了,刚好你们顺路,所以打了同一辆车,坐在同一排,兄弟,把握住吧,这是你最后的机会。
没有最充分的科学证据可以百分之百预测你的约会会有什么样的结果,但如果你肯花时间留意一下这些小小的细节暗示,你『安打』的成功率会提高很多。

